Do you ever fall victim of the comparison trap? He/she is better looking than me? Skinny Bitches! They make more money than me. They are smarter than me. Their kids always behave better than mine. We all compare ourselves to others. Often, we take our worst and compare it to others best! How is that fair? Fair or not, we do it anyways. We do it because that is how we view ourselves and based on our level of self-esteem, the harsher critic we become.
“Self-esteem impacts every aspect of a person’s life: employment, education, relationships, and more.” -John Maxwell
If you want to start changing your self-esteem
, you must start by stopping the comparison game! Work on building up your self-belief and self-worth by doing things that make you feel good about yourself. Surround yourself with people that give you energy not drain your energy. The positive benefits of building your self-esteem will quickly fill your cup and spill over in every aspect of your life. All you need to do is commit to stop playing the comparison game!