Identity vs. Role
If I asked you to describe yourself, what would you say? Would you start naming off all of your roles or hats your wear: mom, dad, wife, husband, job title etc?
It is important to remember the difference between our personal identity, "who I am" and our personal roles "who I become". For many people the difference between those is very grey and their identity is often the first to leave when their roles start to dominate their life. Never forget who you are, your identity as a person. Your uniqueness that makes you, you. Because you, are always a 10 and there is no one in this world who is a better version of you, than YOU!!!
Remember, your identity is what makes your roles possible. Never lose sight of who are.